by Mike Oulahen
Rounding up the guys to devour some barbecued red meat, followed
by a drunken jaunt to the local “nudie bar,” just doesn’t
seem to be cutting it for today’s soon-to-be grooms as they
celebrate the end of bachelorhood.
Could this new trend just be the competitive nature of men flourishing
as they try to upstage their buddy’s previous celebration?
Absolutely! Guys want the best of everything -- and most of all,
they want to impress. After all, it’s the Bachelor Party and
not the wedding that will be most remembered and talked about event
among a guy’s inner circle. The bachelor party is the ultimate
‘boys night out,” and lately, grooms are stretching
this “night out’ into a whole weekend affair.
So, why all of a sudden are trends showing that bachelor parties
no longer just entail one evening of cliché festivities,
but instead include a full weekend getaway filled with adventure?
This could be due to the fact that men are now getting married later
in their lives and thus have more disposable income to celebrate
their bachelor parties in an out-of-town setting. According to Bride’s
Magazine, the average age of a man getting married in the United
States is now 29.
So where are today’s grooms going to celebrate their final
days of bachelor freedom -- and more importantly, what are they
doing when they get there? These traveling bachelor parties all
seem to wind up in destinations that make sense to travel to for
a weekend ... and have a reputation for being full of beautiful
women. When the guys get to their chosen destinations, they tend
to indulge in adrenaline-packed activities during the day like go-karting,
bungee jumping and racing experiences. Then when evening strikes,
they enjoy taking in some eye-popping entertainment while being
pampered like rock stars.
The Las Vegas bachelor party is probably one of the most popular
choices for the high-end bachelor party. The cool thing about Vegas
is that if you travel in a group, you can enjoy the feeling of being
pampered like royalty at an affordable price. Believe it or not,
hiring a limo for the night can actually be cheaper than cab fare,
and you even get to travel the strip from one hotspot to another,
sipping champagne.
During the day, there’s plenty more exciting activities if
you’re not too hung over to participate. Take a leap of faith
by bungee-jumping off of the Circus Circus Hotel and Casino, or
get behind the wheel of your very own indy car as you reach speeds
of 140 miles per hour at the Mario Andretti Racing experience.
Believe it or not, some Canadian cities are carving out their place
as traveling bachelor party hotbeds as well. Montreal and Toronto
are two Canadian gems gaining popularity with the bachelor party
scene. What’s all the hype about? For starters, the two cities
are renowned for their beautiful women and have incredible night
life options.
Toronto has been said to be one of the top cities to recruit Canadian
models, and the gentleman’s clubs in Montreal are known worldwide.
The accessibility of Cuban cigars is another popular feature of
these Canadian destinations. For those who know cigars, Cubans are
the cream of the crop, and their presence during the bachelor party
can really score top points with the party contingent.
Other popular trends in the traveling bachelor party include taking
in a major league sporting event. Even snowboarding adventures and
learn-to-surf camps are gaining popularity.
The truth of the matter is that guys like quality time with the
boys, yet as they get older and start focusing on their professional
and family lives it becomes much harder to do. This could explain
why the bachelor party has evolved from a regular night out in a
local strip club to a testosterone packed out-of-town weekend adventure.
For all of you who are planning on tying the knot in the upcoming
future, it’s time to get that thinking hat on early so you’re
prepared for the big day -- that is,"the big day" being
the bachelor party, of course.
About The Author
Mike Oulahen is a co-founder of GuysGetaway.com;
the web's first and foremost travel planning service for Men. GuysGetaway.com
specializes in bachelor party planning, golf trips, sports trips
and VIP planning services for men.
November 26th, 2007 at 3:16 pm
same question…i need a cake to jump out of by Dec. 23rd in Toronto….where would I get that…HELP!
August 9th, 2007 at 10:58 am
Would any know where one could rent a cake that someone would jump out of (not sure what you call them) in the Toronto (Ontario, Canada) area?
A friend is looking to rent one for her cousin’s birthday party and has been everywhere she can think of on the Internet - she found one in Washington, DC!
So if anyone could help with this ‘dilemma’, I would really appreciate an e-mail back. I, too, have surfed the Net looking for this ‘pop-out cake’ but to no avail.
Many thanks, Heather
Whitby, Ontario, Canada