Red, White & Blue: A Rainbow Tour of Wedding Gowns

We've come a long way since Queen Victoria launched the craze for white weddings. Color's creeping into the gowns of even the most demure brides, in the form of bright blue sashes or royal red trim, crisp black embroidery or even a dress made entirely from flame-red satin.

And yet even today, when it comes time to select the perfect color for your wedding dress, you'll probably find your decision rests not only on your personal preferences, but the perceptions of your nearest and dearest.

Plenty of colors haven't made much of a splash in today's pool of bridal possibilities — not because they lack charm, but because they come loaded with certain unsavory meanings.

Colored Wedding Gowns

Marry in Gray? (Probably) No Way

For example, you won't find many brides marrying in gray, no matter how well it sets off their olive skin or blue eyes. The reason? Its historical association with the hoi polloi. In Victorian novels, for example, a governess or house servant would typically dress in gray — not the image most brides want to evoke at their gala event.

It's Okay to Think Pink

Other colors have recently crept onto the list, despite being "beyond the pale" not long ago. Pink was always a great favorite, but until recently it seemed a little too frivolous and girlish for wedding. Maybe a pink sash or a bit of trim was all right, but a pink gown?

Not long ago, you might get hit with a few churlish Barbie comments if you donned one. But thanks to the power of televised celebrity weddings, it's now perfectly safe to embrace your not-so-inner pinkophile, even on your wedding day.

Colored Wedding Gowns

Raving for Red

Red recently overcame a similar prejudice, having long been associated with wanton women. But the color's gaining steam throughout Europe and you just might see a red gown at a second, Valentine or Christmas wedding, making for a dramatic entrance.

Colored Wedding Gowns

Enter the Earth Tones: Brown and Green

Now that Celtic weddings are a permanent part of the theme landscape, we're seeing more "nature colors" turn up in gowns: even brown is making an appearance at some rustic, woodsy or mystic weddings. You'd be far more likely to see a brown bride somewhere in Greenwich Village (or even the wide-open Rockies) than the Upper East Side ... though chocolate browns and mochas are current power colors when it comes to bridesmaids' attire.

Another attractive hue — one in the past given even a wider berth than red — is green. Plenty of lore associates green with the fairies, serpents, and even more questionable behaviors and personalities. In fact, the fairies were said to take offense if you donned their signature color on your wedding day, though why they'd object isn't easy to understand (but then, they never were a reasonable lot).

At any rate, the occasional modern bride sees green as the color of growth and connectedness and wears it to her wedding, all the while thumbing her nose at the fairies.

Colored Wedding Gowns

Bridal in Blue

On the other hand, history shows some colors were a big hit with brides, and one of them was blue.

Apart from blue's association with the Virgin Mary and its implication that the bride was "all she should be," blue also involved a satisfaction-guaranteed clause concerning the fiancé. In short, according to legend, a bride in blue was sure to enjoy a faithful husband 'til death did them part. What more could you ask for?


Vlady Peters is an Australian Civil Marriage Celebrant authorized to perform marriages in Australia. She also perform general ceremonies such as Baby Naming, Renewal of Vows and Commitment Ceremonies. To learn more about her as a celebrant and an author, visit vlady at www.weddings-celebrant.com

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10 Comments

  1. kimberley Says:

    My boyfreind and i r planning our wedding , He suggest that he wanted the bridal party and reception to be of rainbow colours and he is serious .Please send me ur ideas.

    Thank u

  2. Emilie Says:

    I’m looking for a red, white and blue wedding gown!? Can anyone help???

  3. lorena guzman Says:

    am getting married in june and my colors are red and white and i havent the idea of how we we should decorate, any advise or ideas on how to decorate with red and white, and i also dont want to use ballons

  4. Gail Says:

    Hi Tori: Do you mean you want a baby blue bridal gown? I have seen red and black, but not blue. At this late date, you will not be able to order anything. But, why don’t you go to a bridal store and look at all the bridesmaids/prom dresses? Maybe you will be able to find something. There are so many nice gowns now that CAN be used as wedding gowns. I hope you find what you are looking for! Congratulations!:)

  5. Tori Bush Says:

    ok so me and my boyfriend are getting married on dec. 16,07 and i need to find a baby blue dress.. can anyore help me?:((

  6. Blake@FavorIdeas Says:

    Ivy, check out this photo of something similar. Isn’t it gorgeous?

  7. Ivy Says:

    I want to know would it look tacky to have a rainbow of bridesmaid dresses for a christmas wedding. For instance, one girl in red, one in green, one in purple and one in blue.

  8. christa Says:

    cant find the right dress black and red is nearly impossible if anybody finds anything please it should be form fitting and gorgeous for a no traditional wedding

  9. Christina Says:

    no matter where i seem to look i cannot find the dress that i want for my wedding:(( i am looking for a red dress and a white oaver coat that is really long and flowey. the red part has to be form fitting. the wedding is not untill next year but i want to find the dress now.

  10. chasity wilson Says:

    i am looking for a picture and where i can find a red wedding gown featured as a debi award winner/nominee,in modern bride magazine late 1990,s.the model was blonde with black feather headpiece.can you help ?

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