Give Your Fall Wedding a Contemporary Twist (with Sarah Lusardi)

Autumn weddings. They bring to mind all kinds of happy paradoxes: rustic elegance. Unstaged abundance.

An autumn wedding capitalizes on the glorious peep show going on outdoors ... and the not-too-hot weather, and photo ops against curtains of oak or maple leaves the size of a man's hand. Celebration is an instinct in the fall.

But what if you want a fall wedding with a little twist on the usual palette of reds, oranges and golds? What if, in fact, you don't plan to plunk down a single pumpkin anywhere, or jot "cornstalks" on your shopping list?

You're covered — we've drawn on two of the country's popular wedding planners for their ideas on putting a chic, urban spin on the traditional fall wedding, or simply on having a reception that goes the extra mile toward being uniquely your own. First up is Sarah Lusardi of NY Engagements and Style Networks' "Whose Wedding Is It Anyway?", who leads us down the littered path with grace.

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Sarah Lusardi on Fall Weddings with a Fresh Face

green acorns "It's true, a lot of people are looking to inject some contemporary style into an autumn wedding and go beyond the pumpkins and apples we've seen before," agrees Lusardi. "They want to make it a little more city chic ... or country chic."

Doing so doesn't require an actual revolution, though, she points out — just reframing.

"For example," she says, "the rose petals you often see lining each side of the aisle? Switch those out with autumn leaves, but instead of the usual welter of brights, get leaves that are just one color ... monochromatic. Simply narrowing that palette makes it more contemporary."

Some more of Lusardi's ideas for autumn splendor with an uptown slant:

Colors. "Even if you want to get away from red and brown, you have a lot of options," says Lusardi. Go green, she suggests — a sizzlingly contemporary color. "Go with green grapes, green eucalyptus, green willow. Wrap your napkins in green kiwi branches.

"You don't have to focus on forest green, either," she points out. "Do something different: mossy green, or sage. Going for unusual shades of the usual colors can make a big impact." She suggests trying burgundy in lieu of bright red, and "maybe adding a teeny tiny hint of Muscari blue — it looks gorgeous with these colors." Or combine mossy green with creams for a cool yet totally autumn palette.

Another trick for going green? Acorns. "Acorns look fresh and modern when you use the young, green acorns with the stems still attached. "These look beautiful tied to guest cards," she says. Want to add even more pop? Take those green acorns and paint a line of bright color (or metallic) around the nut.

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Centerpieces. Combine the contemporary with the rustic for a striking, fresh look. "Mingle calla lilies with pussy willows or curly willow," she says. Or place florals in square glass vases wrapped with silk ribbon in a modern color scheme, like chocolate brown or latte.

Guestbooks. Have a shutterbug on hand? Snap some gorgeous shots of your venue ahead of time, focusing on fall foliage, gorgeous oak trees, sunsets, draft horses, siding. "Design a retro white border around the images, and make them sepia-toned," she says. Print them out post-card size, leave the backs blank, and have your guests sign these for a far more personal guestbook you'll love to look at later.

Or, she says, create a tree out of curly willow in a tall glass cylinder. "Cut out leaf shapes using textured, handmade paper," she says, with satin ribbons attached so guests can hang their well-wishes.

Reminiscence. "Think of the festivals or carnivals you went to as a kid. Think of the different feelings, smells, food that's evoked. Try to bring that into your celebration: maybe you remember roasted nuts, or a prize-winning blackberry pie." Was there a booth you returned to year after year? A chili cookoff? A pony ride? Fireworks?

Favors. "Gourmet candy apples with gourmet toppings," enthuses Lusardi. "They're so beautiful, they're part of the décor." She suggests this urbane twist: "tie them off with a quality, contemporary ribbon. For example, tie a bow on each stem with a gorgeous Midori ribbon in an apple-green plaid."

Lusardi also suggests handing out brown paper cones filled with natural (air-popped) popcorn for tossing, instead of the typical white rice. "Brown paper cones are a great, rustic-looking way to pass out popcorn or mixed nuts to your guests during cocktail hour, too."

Go Local. Most rural locations are host to some kind of harvest or wine festival, points out Lusardi. If your reception's taking place in a vineyard, line up half bottles or splits of the house wine to tuck in a welcome basket, or stack on the favor table. Or draw on that year's prize-winning maple sugar confections or apricot jams.

The Kindest Color. "Green items are a leading topic at just about every wedding seminar or awards ceremony you could mention," says Lusardi. "Environmental invitations are very important now. And you can not only get the invites in those deep fall colors, you can also get the envelopes in luscious chocolate browns — recycled."

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14 Comments

  1. patti dunnells Says:

    daughter is getting married nov.7,2009, obviously a fall theme wedding we are looking for a unique card/money box for the reception. do not want typical or cake type box. maybe a wine barrell ??

  2. Asia Says:

    Hi,
    Im having a september wedding, and need HELP. lol I was never the type of little girl who dreamed of her wedding, so I had no ideas to go on once I was proposed to. Our colors are ivory, gold, and chocolate. We are funding our own wedding and would like any ideas on reasonably priced DIY centerpieces and bouquets. we want to stick with the colors we have chosen, but wouldnt mind throuwing a little bit of fall colors into the bouquets or centerpieces. Thanks a bunch.

  3. Ashley Says:

    Hello,
    I am planning on October wedding in Tennessee! For table decorations I have found vases at the Dollar Store which have fall leaves, flowers, etc. with the base itself being of bark. So cute! We are scattering leaves (from Wal-Mart) on each table along with votices, which will be set in a ceramic leaf (from the Dollar Store).
    I have found a way to have a very stylish reception for next to nothing. Check around, you may find the thing you like most at the least expensive store.

  4. Jennifer Says:

    I am getting married October 20th and we planned to do just the simple pumpkins with rich fall coloured mums in it for centerpieces. Very cheap and pretty, we are scattering the tables with fall leaves as well. Our favors are cute little bags with pumpkin seeds in it tied with chocolate brown raffia and a leaf shaped tag with our initials on it. We are decorating the hall with barrels of apples, pumpins, gourds, hay bails ect. Everything is done fairly cheap and made by us. We are also making candy trees, expecially for the children. You get a ceramic pot and put a styrofoam ball in it, then you take a dowel and push it into the ball. You then get a cone shaped strofoan for the tree part and push the other end of the dowel into it so I resembles a tree. You then hot glue chocolate bars in wrappers all around the tree til its filled. After the cone shape is completly filled you put gum and suckers and what not into the pot so its filled and you cant see the ball styrofoam. It looks really cute. Saw it on Martha Stewart.

  5. Jen Says:

    I can’t believe that everyone on this sight is going in detail down to that the type of pillow their ringbearer is going to bring up the aisle!! Is there anyone out there like me??? My fiance and I gave ourselves 7 weeks to plan for a wedding that would host 100 of our nearest and dearest. We’ve managed to secure a 5-star restaurant in the mountains just for us, with full wait staff throughout the afternoon in white gloves, trays of saliva-inducing hors d’oeuvres with garden walking trails, outdoor ceremony under the shade of Fall maples & champagne toast for all of our guests after the ceremony, a tent set up, etc. , to be followed with a 5 course dinner with wine pairings with each course… We’ve done all this for about $10,000, the food & wine being about $7,500 of the total. 5 weeks to go and about 3/4 of my ‘to do list’ is done…. I am starting to think that the more time you have, the more you tend to spend!! I am sooooo happy with our decision to keep things simple and beautiful.. I know we will enjoy the very special day but in the end, it’s just another day!! Wishing you all the best on your wedding days, and minimal stress!!!

  6. Kassey Says:

    If you plan to do red as a color, bouquets look beautiful if you add red feathers to them. They look sophisticated and add that splash of color.

  7. Jackie Says:

    I am having an october wedding, we are doing three cylinders with glass stones in the bottom filled with water, fake flowers placed inside with a floating candle, on top of a mirror with two votives for underneath light. It looks really good. Our colors are chocolate and aqua, we are in Florida so seasons are pretty much always the same. We are doing regular favors jordan amonds in tulle circles.

  8. CHRISTINE Says:

    IM HAVING A FALL WEDDING MY WEDDING DATE IS NOVEMBER 11TH BUT I DONT WANT ALL THE BROWN AND ORANGE ..OR ACORN’S PUMPKINS ECT..MY WEDDING COLOR’S ARE RED BLACK AND WHITE..I NEED SOME IDEA’S TO STILL GO WITH A FALL WEDDING

  9. erika Says:

    IVE SEEN CRANBERRIES IN A VASE WITH CARNATIONS YOU COULD DO IT W ROSES.ITS ACTUALLY REALLY PRETTY AND I THINK IT GO GOOD W APPLES.WHAT ARE U DOING W THE APPLES ?

  10. Amy Says:

    I’m stuck on centerpieces - i wanted to do some red apples but with a little something - and not sure what? roses? acorns?
    HELP!! :-?

  11. Christine Says:

    I’m planning a fall wedding, and we are going with oil lamps and foliage for the center pieces….no pumpkins for me!

  12. Jennifer Says:

    Hi everyone.. I am currently stuck on wedding colors for a Sept 20th wedding… I was thinking wine and ivory. I believe the reception sites tableclothes are white and burgandy (with the burgandy on top)… So I don’t know what to do with the centerpieces. I’m really not into the pumpkins and cornstalks….etc etc…

  13. Christa Says:

    My friend had an autumn themed wedding and had lots of apple and acorn decor… it was a beautiful, rich combination of reds and browns. She opted for a stylish nontraditional ringbearer pillow and got this one:
    www.brightandbold.com/red-apple-velvet-pillow.html

    and it turned out so pretty. Lots of pretty ideas.

  14. paula manrow Says:

    for the centerpiece our idea is to have pumpkins in the middle of the tables with a bride and groom carved in it, on both sides and have a candle in the middle. ads 1 idea

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