“Green” or Environmental Wedding Favors
The "Green" wedding ... has its time almost come? Though it's a relatively new concept, green-minded brides are often busy looking for a simpler, sleeker wedding gown that bypasses the "princess bride" pageant.
Some boutiques have obliged by actually designing wedding gowns in hemp and other easy-on-the-earth fabrics. Other brides find great satisfaction in giving their mother's gown a second turn around the block.
After that, there's still plenty to ponder. Register at the IDoFoundation, where contributions go to charity? What about the issues — both political and environmental — involved in gold mining? Then there's all the waste of a typical wedding, where oodles of fine food tyipcally hits the trash bin instead of the homeless shelter when the dancing ends. Not so with the green bride: even the flowers (and the bridesmaids' gowns) can enjoy a meaningful afterlife when given to hospitals, residental homes, and creative charities like The Glass Slipper Project.
What else constitutes an environmentally sound wedding? Well, Bay Area caterers are inundated with brides who want to serve up a fresh, all-organic menu. Even your wedding flowers can be organic (OrganicBouquet is one site that specializes in pesticide-free blooms). Fair-trade issues show up in areas ranging from flowers (many imported flowers are not; try your local farmer's market instead) to that after-dinner coffee.
Perhaps the best way to pull off a light-footprint event is to pull back from the pros and let your friends and family take up the load. Know a seamstress who can make you that clean-lined dress you've always dreamed of? How about a friend with a knack for simple flower arrangements, or someone who can pull together a delicious (but not ostentatious) cake? Wouldn't your family love to contribute their time-honored favorites to your dessert table? Can someone whip together those beautiful table runners you wanted with fabric from the thrift store? Remember, the word "amateur" means "for love" .... not poorly done! Let your wedding come together out of love, and you'll have something to remember that's as beautiful as it is conscientious.
We recently heard of a couple that gave away super energy-efficient light bulbs as favors. While we admire their fervor, we think many brides might prefer something a little ... well, prettier.
Things That Glow. The 'green' bride might love the romantic flicker of hundreds of tiny votives, yet feel uncomfortable with paraffin or beeswax candles. A popular alternative is the soy candle, which has the advantage of burning cooler, and longer. Soy votives can be bought at many places, but the hands-on bride will consider making them herself from an ultra-affordable block of soy wax.
Things That Grow. What a great fit for the green bride: something that lasts for years and years, while adding its bit of fresh oxygen to the air. If you want to give something living as a remambrance of your day, consider:
Bulb wedding favors. Tuck bulbs in an attractively textured bag (try unbleached muslin, hand-dyed jute or burlap, and stencil a monogram or picture of the flower in front).
Potted Flowers. Do you have a sixth sense for sales? Can you find clay pots or small containers inexpensively? Kill two birds with one stone by cultivating easy-to-grow flowers for your wedding: try poppies, morning glories, shasta daisies, marigolds, or mexican sunflowers. These gorgeous blooms will beautify your reception and make for irresistible favors. In the unlikely event you have any leftovers, your neighbors will love them.
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Bamboo. For a eco-conscious, Oriental-style favor, you
can buy a few in advance, and propogate a bunch more!
Seed Packet Wedding Favors: design and print your own labels.
Handmade Paper with embedded wildflower seeds: buy, or make your own.
Live Plants in Tubes. Check here for more idea-generating information.
Tree Seedling Favors. That wonderful, earth-friendly trend.
Tree seedlings can be bought for $3 each from the Arbor
Day Foundation, which is a wonderful place for a favor budget
to go. These two-year-old seedlings are practically and hardily
packaged.
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If you love the idea of seedlings but don't quite have the budget for $3 each, try tree seed kits instead. They're equally attractive and run a little cheaper. Here are several:
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Tree In a Box has an ornamental presentation (with a Celtic knot theme) worthy of any wedding. These gorgeous little packages run $2.50 apiece when bought in 'wedding quantities.' If you have a bit more to spend, consider their personalized seals ($.50 apiece).
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The Canada Foundation seed kits are also adorable and cost only $1.50 apiece.
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You can even make your own tree seed kits for rock-bottom prices by buying peat pellets in bulk and inserting tree seeds (both can be cheaply bought online). You'll need to be creative about the packaging, and be sure you get appropriate planting directions for your choice of tree (some must be planted in fall; some in spring) but this can bring your costs down to nearly nothing!
Sensuous Scents, Part One. Cones full of flower-petal confetti smell lovely, and don't litter up the reception venue, but roses might seem a bit precious. Why not go for something more colorful and earthy, like 'rosemary and blue mallow' confetti? Here are several suppliers:
- Confetti Direct (UK) Organic petal confetti from gorgeous wildflowers.
- The Petal Pot (UK) Even the website was built on solar power!
Sensuous Scents, Part Two. Make some beautiful sachets or potpourri bags for your guests, using bulk organic herbs. Time-honored choices like rosemary, lavendar and rose petals are just the starting point: make your own mix (how about balsam needles?), and include a tag with a saying, a history of your chosen herbs, or a complementary recipe.
Lavender for devotion,
Rosemary for remembrance,
Rose Petals for love.
Suited to a Tea. A small bag of organic tea in a cute paper tea-cover (you can easily make your own; template coming soon) makes a fragrant and picturesque gift. Personalize the cover with the couples' names and a silly saying about tea.
The Bigger Picture: Socially-Conscious
Donations. A donation in lieu of favors seem especially
appropriate for the green bride. Pick a worthy association (suggestions
below), and notify the guests on pretty cards of handmade paper.
Plantable seed content optional!
| Organization | Mission |
| The Heifer Fund | "Heifer has learned that no resource is too small or too large to help lift families from hunger and poverty." |
| Nature Conservancy | "Preserves natural communities by protecting lands and waters they need to survive." |
| WWF | "One of the world's largest and most respected independent conservation organizations." |
| GreenPeace | "An independent, campaigning organisation that uses non-violent, creative confrontation to expose global environmental problems." |
| Rainforest Action Network | "To protect the Earth's rainforests and support the rights of their inhabitants through education, grassroots organizing, and non-violent direct action." |
| EarthFirst! | "A front-line, direct action approach to protecting wilderness that gets results." |
| Taiga Rescue Network | "Supports local struggles and strengthens cooperation among those concerned with the protection, restoration and sustainable use of boreal forests." |
| Farm Sanctuary | "To rescue unwanted or abused farm animals." |
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Another fascinating concept which you just might recall from a college macroeconomics class is the carbon offset. Very socially-conscious organizations and some individuals buy carbon offsets to compensate for the amount of CO2 their families — and guests — pump into the environment via planes, trains and automobiles! The idea's more familiar in Europe, where carbon-offset "credits" have been required of companies for years, but it's catching on domestically too.
Click here to investigate carbon offset credits and carbon calculators!
You also might want to read more about donations in lieu of favors.







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my mom totally hates the seedling idea too. her friend’s kid did it and she said the ones she planted died, and people left them behind, blah blah…..fiance and i are disappointed. we really liked the idea. (still might overrule mom)
so….we were thinking potted herbs. anyone know anywhere to shop for them? also, do you think they’ll be expensive? we don’t wanna pay more than a couple bucks per favor.
thanks in advance!
peace.
I visited your website as I am looking for a gift for my friend who is getting married on June 30th and is having a “green” wedding. We are activist/investors with The Hunger Project (THP): http://www.thp.org, which celebrates 30 years this Oct. 13 and 14 with a gala event in New York City. Would you please add THP to your list of organizatons that people may choose to support?
With my very best wishes, Sincerely, Trudy
All the best, Trudy
One other huge environamental problem with getting married are the wedding rings. Gold mining for the purpose of showing your commitment has become a big business. Since my finace and I still wanted to exchange rings on our wedding day we went to a local goldsmith and had him make us rings out of recycled gold he had. Just a thought if anyone is having moral issues about wearing gold….this might be an alternative option. Or check out the GreenKarat.
Hi all. Funny thing. I just stumbled across http://www.worldofgood.com recently and found some great matching sets of handcrafted fair trade jewelry for my bridesmaids. It looked great with their dress and it was made from tagua nuts!
Dawn-Try http://www.rawganique.com or http://www.threadheadcreations.com
They have nice organic hemp dresses that aren’t terribly poofy.
PS - note to Susan - I think you mistook the authors intent. The truth is, we live in a world were it’s all about what we want - what’s good for the environment is just an after thought. YES - IT IS ABOUT TIME that couples started thinking about the impact their big day is having on the world around them!! I say it is DEFINITELY ABOUT TIME!!!! yes Susan, being green is about “being thankful for our Earth and respecting other life as being equal to our own” as you stated - and wouldn’t you agree, it’s about time that thankfulness and respect became a popular option?
Some great ideas for travel-worthy green gifts:
- small packages of wildflower seeds
- a gift certificate for a local greenhouse
I will be having a destination wedding this year. I am stuck because I really want to give an earth-friendly favor such as a potted plant but my guests will not be able to take them back home on the plane. What else can I give?
I am planning on having a ring of smaller potted plants with one larger potted plant as centerpieces on the the tables at the reception and anywhere else I can use them instead of cut flowers. Then, people can take them home as the favors and they serve two purposes.
Instead of providing tree seeds or seedlings… we simply donated money in the name of each guest to a tree planting non-profit organization… and gave cards with that written on it (”…a tree has been planted in your name…”). This way I could ensure that the trees would infact make it into the ground to grow… and not end up dying unwater/unplanted on a less concerned friend/family member’s front porch. Just made me feel more certain that the money spent was definitley making a difference. The guest really loved it too.
Dawn: I have seen a very simple long hemp dress that comes in white at several online merchants. Try searching for “swan hemp dress.”
We are having a green wedding, (although we didn’t realize it was a concept until now!). Yay! We have organic caterers, recycled glass centerpieces, and it will all be outdoors and on the minimalist side for a good time with a clean conscience. Anyone have good places to look for a simple, elegant, not poofy princess dress or other informal options? I’m having a terrible time looking, and it’s down to the wire with the wedding in September…
Much appreciated!
Hello. I am going to have a wedding in the summer of 2007. I want to plant flowers in a pot for each person at the wedding. My question is should I buy the bulbs, pots and soil and do them myself or should I have a garden shop do it for me. I am asking this because I am having 150 people. I don’t know if I can handling doing that many and what if they die on me before the wedding. Please help me.
Some of your viewers may be interested in the World Land Trust carbon offsets — the only charity doing it. We are currently helping plant rainforests in Brazil and Ecuador
thank you so much for these links. these favor ideas are so tasteful and affordable that i am considering them as a more meaningful wedding favor. (besides, d.i.y. chocolate lollypops are sooo overrated!)
:D>- Hey- if you’re looking for more tree favors with prettier packaging try green world project- it’s the only way i could convince my mom to let me give tree seedlings as wedding favors.
Who cares why people buy green products? The bottomline is that by doing so they are “donating” to something bigger. I am a vegan for ethical reasons. But, some people do it for health reasons. The bottomline is that animals are saved. Any ideas that are green in nature are better than the alternative. And, anyone who puts those ideas out there is to be commended.
I am so grateful for these eco-friendly and AFFORDABLE suggestions. I believe it’s an unwarranted assumption to say the author isn’t green. This article alone may have inspired the planting of hundreds of trees, thousands of dollars in environmental donations and a whole lot less plastic doves floating around!
Personally I think the point has been missed guys. Any publicity for ‘green’ gift ideas whether they are for weddings or birthdays or whatever is fantastic. Better to spend money on these kind of things than waste it on objects the recipiant is never going to use. By the way, you didn’t mention the original profferer of the ‘buy an acre of rainforest’ The World Land Trust - better than Climate Care because they are a charity! Look them up.
Susan — I’m a longtime vegan but I’m embarrassed to be associated with people like you. Ever notice how some greenies and vegans turn EVERYONE off with their holier-than-thou attitude and total lack of sense of humor? Personally I think you should get over yourself, stat. It’s a wedding web page, not a manifesto. Jeez.